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6 Things I Did Not Expect When I Was Expecting

6/30/2015

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Four months ago I had a baby.  This month, my little baby learned how to take naps.  So now, for the first time in four months, I am sitting down to share my baby-having experience.

I’ll be honest, birthing stories totally gross me out. However, when I discovered that I was pregnant, I started reading every birthing story on the internet to prepare myself for having a baby. What did I learn? People are gross! Simply put, some people are nasty and they share too much information on the internet. I wish I would have read more helpful facts void of all the gory details.  Instead, I had nightmares for the nine months leading up to having a baby due to internet TMI. 

Good news: I’m sure as heck not going to share private details about my birthing experience here. Eww. 

What I do want to share are the 6 things that I did not expect when I was expecting. You know, to help you out if you ever have a baby.
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1.  No one (besides me) believed I was having a baby

I had a routine ultrasound on the day that I went into labor. When I woke up, I told my husband that I had a really bad side cramp and that I thought it was a contraction. Somehow, he convinced me that I had just ate too much for dinner the previous night.  

At my ultrasound appointment, I told the doctor that I felt like I was having a baby.  She laughed, and told me that I was probably experiencing Braxton-Hicks contractions.  After she laughed, she told me to expect to feel the same pain for the rest of the week leading up to my due date. Then she sadistically continued laughing and said that if I was truly having a baby I would be in more pain.

Convinced that I was being a baby instead of having a baby, I went home and moped around the house for the rest of the day.  As I later discovered, I was actually having contractions that were 4 minutes apart.  However, because I had been told they were not real, I didn’t want to look like a wimp, so I skipped dinner, sucked it up and went to bed.

Then my water broke.

I said to my husband “I think my water just broke”. 

He said “Are you sure you didn't just pee your pants?”

I said “Seriously!?! Fine, either I’m having a baby or I am a 31 year old woman who has suddenly started peeing my pants.  Either way, I think I better go the hospital!”

Then I stomped into the kitchen, grabbed my hospital bag and marched to my car.  My frantic husband quickly joined me and 10 minutes later I was being admitted to the hospital.

Lesson learned:  If you think you are having a baby, you probably are.  Listen to your gut (literally).

2.  Pack a bag AND prepare an outfit to wear to the hospital

I did what the internet told me to do; I packed a bag of supplies to take with me to the hospital. I had a post pregnancy outfit to wear, toothbrush, shampoo, flip flops, and stuff for the baby---what I didn’t have was an outfit prepared to wear TO the hospital.  Naturally, I wore the outfit that I had worn to bed: a matching t-shirt and sweatpant combo with my husband’s track team logo plastered across the chest and pant leg.  When we got to the hospital and stripped off our coats my husband and I discovered something horrible.

WE WERE WEARING THE SAME OUTFITS!

We looked like team New Parent prepared to coach our baby into the world.

Lesson Learned: Avoid teaching your children that a family uniform is acceptable.  Prepare an outfit to wear to the hospital.

3.  They take your glasses and your shirt

I explained that I did my research before having a baby, right? Well, the most terrifying research I did was on YouTube. I watched videos of women giving birth (these videos actually exist). 

Early on in my video viewing process I discovered that none of the women wore shirts.  

I didn’t think much of the sans shirt fashion statement because I just assumed these women were more comfortable in their own skin than in their clothes---let’s be real, only women who give zero hoots about modesty record their labor, and I can only assume that those who put their videos on YouTube are nudists.  Therefore, I was shocked when the first nurse I encountered told me to strip naked and put on a hospital gown.  If that wasn't enough, she then demanded that I give her my glasses for safe keeping so that they wouldn't break.

Based on her reaction, I think the nurse expected the baby to pop out of my armpit and punch me in the eye.

Fortunately, I had done my YouTube research and I knew that this was not how babies came into the world.  So, I put up a fight and was allowed to continue wearing my shirt. Once I verbalized that I understood that my 5XL t-shirt might get (gasp!) ruined, they still confiscated my glasses until post-birth.

Lesson learned:  Babies don’t come out of your armpit.  Wearing a shirt should not interfere with the birthing process.

4.  Hunger Pains

I expected a lot of pain. Oddly, the pain wasn’t that bad, but the hunger pains? Legit! I could have consumed an entire Old Country Buffet, ice cream dispenser and all.  The kicker? You are not allowed to eat when you are in labor!!! I didn’t know this.  In an attempt to smuggle food into my hospital room, I tried to make friends with the nurses. By the end of the night I finally convinced one sympathetic nurse to get me some food.  I was overjoyed and couldn’t wait for the hospital cafeteria to deliver my meal.

No joke, my “friend”* the nurse quietly tiptoed into my room, acted like she was going to be arrested for breaking the rules, and handed me a Dixie cup filled with vegetable broth.

This was the biggest disappointment I have ever experienced thus far in life.

Lesson Learned: Don’t skip dinner the night before you deliver a baby.

*We are no longer friends.

5.  Drugs plus lack of sleep make me loopy

I’m a healthy person. Prior to having a baby I had never stayed in a hospital, had surgery, stayed awake for longer than a 24 hour stretch, or put powerful drugs into my body. 

I recently discovered that I don’t respond well to drugs or lack of sleep.

Mistake #1: I flirted with an anesthesiologist. 

In my defense, everyone in my room was wearing scrubs, my husband said he would be right behind my head, and THE NURSE HAD CONFISCATED MY GLASSES.  

It’s only natural that I thought the anesthesiologist standing above my head was my husband.  In my drugged out mental state I said “hi handsome” and, for the first time in my entire life, I winked. 

Ugh.

Mistake #2: I became nurse gossip.

The whole process of having a baby and not being allowed to eat made me exhausted.  It was taking forever to get the baby out of me, and at some point in the night, I just wanted to take a nap.  Apparently, I said “Listen up nurses, I haven’t slept in days. I NEED to close my eyes. I’m giving all of you this warning so that you know I’M NOT DEAD.”

I have no recollection of saying this, but my vegetable broth “friend” let me know the next morning that the nurses had been quoting me all night because they thought my “I’m not dead” declaration was so funny.

“Hey Betty, it’s been a long night, if I fall asleep just remember, I’M NOT DEAD!”

Lesson learned: Try to keep your mouth shut when delivering a baby, and never EVER wink.

6. Lack of Privacy

I was never alone while I was in the hospital. At one point, there were 15+ strangers in my delivery room. 

Once my daughter was born, I naïvely assumed that privacy would be restored in my life.  As I attempted to nurse my daughter for the first time ever (an awkward enough experience by itself) I turned my back to the door to assure myself some privacy.  This is when The Hulk propelled past my window and scared the living bejeezus out of me.
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Lesson learned:  Some children’s hospitals hire window washers that dress up like superheroes.  This is supposed to be fun for kids.  I can only verify that it is terrifying for adults. Privacy doesn't exist in hospitals, and if you have a baby you might flash The Hulk.




Questions:  If you have had a baby: do you think the process was more painful or more awkward? (I vote manageable pain, maximum awkwardness.)  What’s the least expected thing that happened when you were expecting?  If you haven’t had a baby: do you wink in real life? What’s the scariest thing you have ever seen outside of your window? (For me, it was The Hulk).
Enjoy Life!

Miss Nutralicious
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My Reverse Bucket List

6/21/2015

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It's time for another monthly dose of Kiki's The Circle Linkup.  Ok, it's actually past that time.  Way past that time. I'm really late. This was due in April.  

I have been running behind on life these days, but now (I think) I'm ready to play an intense game of catch up. So, I'm going to just pretend that this post was here all along. 
April's topic: The Reverse Bucket List (a list of things you have already done).

I love this topic!  As a new parent, I have spent the last few months changing diapers and walking around like a zombie due to lack of sleep, so it was fun to make a list of accomplishments that included more than cleaning up previously digested food. 

I like to think of my Reverse Bucket List as a Brag List.  Brag, brag, brag.  Whatever.  I'm proud of what I have accomplished thus far in life and seeing a few of my life achievements typed up in a list format is great for my self-esteem.

You knew that this blog was all about archiving my awesomeness, right?   

My Reverse Bucket List

1) I lived in Hawaii.
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This was my backyard
2) I went hiking in a rain forest.
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Yes, it was beautiful.
3)  I paid off all of my student loans.
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Hallelujah! 
4) I graduated from college and earned a masters degree.
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One thing they don't teach ya in graduate school is how to wear the Master hood at graduation.  Good news: the yellow thingy didn't choke me to death.
5) I flew in a helicopter.
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Rock Star!
6) I ran a marathon.
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Bonus points for running down the middle of the road.
7) I completed a 60 day Bikram yoga challenge.
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Seriously, this was one of the hardest things I have ever done.
8) I passed my RD exam.
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I definitely did a happy dance when I got this email.
9) I learned how to play the piano.
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A little unknown fact about Miss Nutralicious:  I started learning how to play the piano 23 years ago. This is my keyboard, my piano is currently being overrun by scrapbook materials and I didn't want to clean it off for a photo op. #lazy. (Yes, the mini piano is for my daughter.)
10) I started a blog.
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My original blog logo.
11) I had a kid.
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According to the bulletin board at the hospital where I delivered my daughter, the hospital delivers babies in brown, manila, white, and yellow varieties.  For the record, my baby has a smaller head than these guys, but her hairdo is about the same.
Whomp there it is! Eleven accomplishments that I have already checked off of my lifetime to-do list.  I still have a bazillion more things that I want to accomplish.  My 30 and Beyond list is just the tip of the iceberg.
THE CIRCLE LINK-UP
Questions:  What's a lifetime accomplishment that you are proud of?  What's one thing you want to accomplish in the future?
Enjoy Life!
Miss Nutralicious
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